Thursday, June 14, 2012

Dealing with the Death Wishers




I had a very interesting stream of thought this morning.

Admittedly I was in a somewhat less joyous frame of mind from having drinks with friends in person and while on the phone. My best friend in NYC was going through some real pain sadly as a result of being a better neighbor to a neighbor of 41 yeara then he and his now "next of kin" were to her.

So, last night was a bit of a tippler, what with Jose and Pomegranate Lime Juice over ice  and Italian Lambrusco over conversation with  old friends next door.

We were all on a rather sorry theme yesterday and today I got to really look at it,

How does one deal with the Death Wishers we come across in life? The people with an agenda that includes hurting you for what ever"reason" they may have?

They are out there. The people who can't win unless someone else loses. The ill wishers. The downright hate filled, the vindictive, vengeful and two faced, the phoney, the backstabbers.

I don't have the foggiest. Really. I have been slammed around by enough of these characters to have figured something out, I would say, if I were judging myself.

I do that from time to time. It doesn't help. Kicking yourself after finding a dent in your fanny from someone else's boot just doubles the bruises.

But in the Law of Attraction I am responsible for having attracted these people.

 True though that is, I did not create them and their lives. They did. Saying otherwise is to assume a control point that is not real and in fact is a bit arrogant.

 Since when did I wake up as God, the Almighty,Maker of Heaven and Earth?

These people came into the world as infants with a fresh life slate to write on as did I. They wrote on their slate.

Me too. That is the way of it.

It really is a question of what you are going to write next, after reading their story. That is as much as I can make of it.

Do you write the angst and bitterness? That is a choice and I have made that one. It would be fraud to say otherwise.

Do you go on writing in that vein? Or do you clean the pen and start again?

Your choice. That really is what you have in dealing with the Death Wishers.
The impossibly infinite Freedom to Choose.




Ex Mea Manua In Tua Manua Dea Eterna.

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